Vanishing Institution Of Marriage

You are right! We're discussing the institution of marriage, prevalent in the country. Do you think, the following generation can survive in the world of compromise? Actually, it's not about the compromise. The whole relationship is based on the trust and respect for another person. However, with the change in thinking and attitude. Everything is going to diminish very soon. Most of the couples are living in the suffocating environment, yet the majority of the people never gather the strength to voice out their opinion. 

What will be the result? What my family will think about it? What will be the reaction of the friends? Will my relatives stop contacting us? Would my image be spoiled, among my peers and boss? Can I do my work myself, after separation? How will I survive with my family, without my spouse? Can I cook for myself ( in case of male partner)? How would I manage my home, after she goes away? Would I be able to earn my livelihood (in case of female partner)?
However, above all the questions and answers; there is a matter of life. That is being ignored, most of the time. 

We think about everything, except our life and satisfaction. When we don't like anything, we don't keep it at our home. Then, how can we live in the situation which we are not comfortable with? There has to be a mutual respect and understanding, which is not present anymore; in most of the cases. Though, data and statistics are quite low. In reality, approximately 90% of cases are witnessing the complications beyond solution. 

Majority of the people are living a life of compromise, without raising their voice. Sometimes it is about a few things. But, when it comes to self-respect and survival of an individual. Life becomes all the more complicated. Most of the times, it turns to hell. Neither a person can live with peace, nor ending the life is an option. But why does anyone has to go through this situation? Can't it be sorted out, prior reaching the gates of the hell? Is it true love or a door to end? Even if things are not going to work.

There is always an option to part with the ways. The sooner you can do it, the better your life would be. However, no one realizes when respect turns to the ego. It gets all the more troublesome when none of the two agrees with the deteriorating situations. Allegations cannot help you find any solution. Nor do the argument. Then, what is the remedy for the breaking of relationships?

There is no fix available, once a crack occurs in the glass. Since broken glass is good for nothing, it is better to discard it before it starts hurting. But, can such situations be prevented? In Indian society, little difficult. Then, what should be done? Either make such relationships as a contract. Or do not enter into one, at all. Nothing to hurt the feelings of the people who are living a happy life.

Just a word, for the ones who have contributed to their lives with suffering. In fact, a huge category of people who are receiving wounds without any mistake of theirs. 

Just that, most of the people feel scared while talking about the miserable situation in the life. If someone talks about it, he frames various charges against his life partner. What happens after living for a few years, that the particular person becomes intolerable? Did the person changes or we become intolerant towards a specific attitude? Isn't it better to not to tolerate any kind of trouble, since the beginning? I mean, why do you compromise in your life? 

Is there any organization or school or government schemes, for that matter, who is going to reward you for tolerance? Why you don't take the right decision, the moment you realize that your life is going in the wrong direction? Why do you wait for the situation to get worse? Why someone else is needed to take your decision? Maybe friends, family, neighbors, relatives or court in the end.
What is the remedy for this matter? Trust me, there is a court of law not justice. Stay independent! It doesn't mean that you have to stay alone. 

You can be independent while living with the person. Try to understand, what you want and what you have to give. Also do, what you expect from another person. There is a very slight difference between self-respect and ego. Don't erase the lines, that can take you to the door of hell. Give respect and space in each relationship, regardless of the judgment you have. If you feel any flaws, immediately search for the best way out. So that, neither you nor your partner would face any kind of trouble in the future. 

Guys, don't forget that your success or happiness is not dependent upon the suffering of your spouse. So, do not create trouble for another person. In fact, try to become neutral and detach yourself from the person; as well as the situation leading to an argument. Also try to part your ways, at the earliest possible time. In order to make sure, that none of you has to go through the unbearable times. It is better to stay like strangers, rather enemies.
Keep watching the space, for more experience.......