How To Control Marital Rape?

Marriage is an association of two mindset, two thought processes, two different personalities and two families at least. But, the definition of the marriage has been changing with the passing of every moment. It has become more of a compromise, rather than the sharing of feelings and emotions. Where both of the persons are separate from each other, except few situations that cannot be ignored.
For the masters of the society, marriage is a kind of license that enables them to rule the body and psychology of the spouse. No matter how much you are educated and modern, if you are into the sanctity of the institution. Then you have to bear the pain of getting sexually assaulted, every now and then. Irony of the situation is that neither you can raise your voice against the same. Nor there is any remedy for you to avail, in support from the law or society.
Since there is no law in favour of the same, it is considered as a matter of right to own the body of his spouse . Vanishing Institution Of Marriage, has been designed to be a reciprocal of each other.  But it doesn't happen in the reality. Things get worse, when the female is left with no feeling for her master. That happens when differences occur, in between the two. As the male partner always feel to get the body of the female, even if no feelings remain in between them. For female, such situations are never welcomed.
Our society and law favours female community, but where that goes when it comes to the forcible torture of any woman; who is rightful to receive the respect in the unique relationship of marriage. Is the concept of respect restricted to the doors of the house? Is it a teaching program for other people, except the spouse? What kind of favour are we talking about, while a woman is dying and not willing to be a part of the process?
Who all are responsible for the forced situation? Woman, as she never raised her voice initially. She kept thinking herself as a commodity, which is used as and when required. Man, who talks about the equal rights of the women. But, his inner self always sits on the supreme throne of the relationship. Family, who always teaches female to be quite and males to be dominant. Society, that can never accept the changes in the mindset of the people.
Need Of an hour or humanity, is to stop the practice of Marital rape. Since it not only effect the body of the female. But also, thinking capabilities - feelings - self confidence - lifestyle - preferences - responsibilities - and certain areas of life that are difficult to be measured by a normal mind. Also every female must understand , how to get the FIR registered in India.  So that she can make the best use of her rights and existence . First step is the only challenge for the victims, rest is done without any kind of hesitation. Such forcible activities must be stopped, at the first time occurrence.
This can be done by the female facing the torture, family members and the people who are involved in the situation indirectly. Also males have to be mature enough to understand the pains, caused to the spouse by their inhuman actions. The relationship between the two people, who have taken oath of seven birth should not be so hard to maintain in the present birth. It must not be a nightmare for a female to keep living in.
Strong bond between the two souls can be survived, without any type of boundation and compromise. Also the understanding matters, without which no marriage can sustain longer. So, you need to be conscious and not sacrificing. Then only you can Safeguard your self respect and stay strong for your future.