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Human beings are prone to being emotional, however, it is not an ideal way to survive. Then, how to control your emotions to live a balanced and satisfactory life. Though there is no guide or Wikipedia for the same. But you need to select the most appropriate manner, to have a balance of your emotions and practical life. Often said and heard, don't be emotional. How many of you, have actually been able to implement that?  Not really, anyone can be so mature and strong to handle the emotional situations. Since everyone has limitations of life . It becomes almost impossible to manage and maintain, the level of low moments. That makes you feel more upset and frustrated, at times. It not only damages the present state of mind and body. But also, destroys or lessens the chances of developing in the future.  No one can advise you how to control your emotions, but it can only be managed by self-analysis. You need to hold on to your feelings and thoughts, in order to make s...

You are right! We're discussing the institution of marriage, prevalent in the country. Do you think, the following generation can survive in the world of compromise? Actually, it's not about the compromise. The whole relationship is based on the trust and respect for another person. However, with the change in thinking and attitude. Everything is going to diminish very soon. Most of the couples are living in the suffocating environment, yet the majority of the people never gather the strength to voice out their opinion.  What will be the result? What my family will think about it? What will be the reaction of the friends? Will my relatives stop contacting us? Would my image be spoiled, among my peers and boss? Can I do my work myself, after separation? How will I survive with my family, without my spouse? Can I cook for myself ( in case of male partner)? How would I manage my home, after she goes away? Would I be able to earn my livelihood (in case of female partner)? Ho...

Regret or Guilt would have never existed if humans can go back in the past. To make the changes or undo what was wrong. However, it is something that doesn't exist in reality and can only be a dream - you can never realize. Some of the mistakes can be rectified, but some steps cannot be changed. For which, there are some ways to get it fixed. But, ending your life should not be the option. There is still a new chapter in the life , waiting for everyone.  There are so many girls, who easily get trapped in the attraction of high society glamorous life. Or the life that movies and modelling actress live. However, it is not easy to achieve the desired place in the attractive industries. Even if you get some chance to reach, it requires something more valuable than your life. You have to compromise more than you will receive.  Let's go to an apartment in the metropolitan city. Well furnished rooms and luxurious amenities, that can take you to the journey of heaven. ...

Marriage is an association of two mindset, two thought processes, two different personalities and two families at least. But, the definition of the marriage has been changing with the passing of every moment. It has become more of a compromise, rather than the sharing of feelings and emotions. Where both of the persons are separate from each other, except few situations that cannot be ignored. For the masters of the society, marriage is a kind of license that enables them to rule the body and psychology of the spouse. No matter how much you are educated and modern, if you are into the sanctity of the institution. Then you have to bear the pain of getting sexually assaulted, every now and then. Irony of the situation is that neither you can raise your voice against the same. Nor there is any remedy for you to avail, in support from the law or society. Since there is no law in favour of the same, it is considered as a matter of right to own the body of his spouse . Vanishing Institutio...

Simple phrase, that is used by people without any reason- 'Just wait, don't hurry'. Just that most of the responsible people, who have the power of any smallest thing ; prefers to use it at the time of war. For them, time is not a big deal when it doesn't apply personally.   They are only concerned about getting their monthly payments and benefits, no matter what is their field of expertise. Not to focus on any particular designation or department, rather most of the places that have been providing public service in any way.  Let's have a look at some of the places that require urgent action and direction. However, due to the waiting approach it gets late or never. 'Just wait, don't hurry'. It may not effect the person who is responsible for the delay in the process. But it can change the life of the aggrieved person, in some cases majorly.  Attempt to suicide reaching to the government hospital, needs immediate treatment. Due to one or ano...

Nowadays, everyone is very occupied with different things in life. No one gets time for anyone, usually. Still, there is some empty space in life that doesn't get filled with the vast list of tasks done daily. How to kill Boredom, becomes a big deal for the majority of the people. TV and other means of recreation have taken the back seat, however, mobile and other Internet-equipped devices have changed the way of living. No matter how hard you are busy, at times you feel that you need something to do that can help you to break the monotony of life.  When you do not have time for anyone, how can you expect it from other people? Also, you cannot talk to anyone every time.  But you must have someone to talk to, every time. It goes like this: you can talk certain things to a few people. Since talking everything to everyone is not a good idea. Also, you cannot go ahead and talk to your close companions, always. Then, how to kill Boredom ; stands still.  First of all,...

The heart has wings! Neither it settles to something nor it lets you stay at a specific point or place. Then, how to f ocus while you are working on any particular project or venture. It is really difficult at times, to gather all your energy and efforts to make it work successfully. Since most of the time, your feelings and thoughts keep roaming away from you. Also, it gets difficult for you to collect those butterflies and concentrate on something in particular.  While everyone is busy with some of the other tasks, time is the biggest factor that keeps on moving irrespective of your wishes. No matter how hard you try to catch up, it goes beyond your control. Amidst the hectic routine, you must look for how to focus on the things that are going to affect your life. At times, you feel uncomfortable about the situation which keeps pushing you. That makes the journey of the techie very difficult to get to the destination.  As if your brain is pulling you to work and yo...

Social networking sites have become an inseparable part of human life, nowadays.   Everyone is obsessed with the wide reach of the network. Since it is helping people, to get in touch with each other. Also adding a lot of advantages to their business and personal life. But, how to use social media smartly is one of the factor - which is missing in most of the people. It needs to be taken care if we have to reach the betterment of humankind. Along with the development in every industry, While you are connecting with the Lost friends and people. You can easily get to learn, h ow to save valuable time by remaining in touch spontaneously. Rather than waiting for the special occasions;  like birthday, anniversaries and festivals once a year. However, every coin has two sides. Likewise, some of the people are not able to understand or deliberately misuse the leverage offered by the social media. All of us need to understand, how to use social media smartly before it's to...

Can anyone guide you, how to manage your relationship? Not really! How To manage your relationship? Can be a question for anyone, across the world. But actually, no one has ever received the concrete reply for the same or any Guru Mantra to make it a success. Everyone must have witnessed some or another concern while living in the relationship. However, at a particular moment, it doesn't give any solution. No matter, how hard you try, you come out losing everything. Forget about the expectations of the life. It is always better to manage things practically, while you are in the situation. But, if not handled properly everything goes out of the control. You must have seen or heard of many relationships broken, without any valid reason. Do you think it happens like that? No. Relationships are not only formed out of the affair, between the two people. It can be among the wedded couple, friends, siblings, parents and children, and others. That means between the two people, who are ...