How To Handle Loneliness?

It never occurred to my mind, until one of my friends asked me about it. ' How can someone handle Loneliness? ' Since then,  several thoughts were moving across my mind.
Where does it arrive from? Expectations! When you expect someone to be with you, accompany you for some time or whole life, you start expecting a lot of things, without saying or listening to. This situation may happen in any relationship "said or silent". It could be with your friends, siblings, spouse relationship or any other person who gets close to you soon but doesn't bear any name tags of the relationship. 

You are not wrong in expecting the person to be a part of your life and enjoy the worthwhile importance. However, problems start when you forget yourself and become dependent on the special person in your life. Dependency can be mental, psychological or financial (in some cases) so, it can be easily managed if you remain independent in every aspect. Just to make sure that you do not have to face any kind of trouble at a later stage. 

Man is a social animal, so can't stay aloof from everyone. But, everyone can be self-sufficient to survive without someone. As life doesn't stop, no matter who arrives or departs from the journey of your life. It is always better to divide and maintain the focus of your life in various directions, instead of centred approach. (cannot be mistaken with the aim of life) Why not, start filling your own self rather than feeding the emotions of people? 

What if, you are already in the mode of being lonely? Do not get harsh or rude to yourself, time doesn't remain the same. Just that you have to sail through the journey, smoothly and smartly. Since you are already going through the process of Loneliness, it is better not to trust anyone till the level of dependency. Also not to remain egoistic, be neutral. However, it is also required for you to choose a few trusted friends to speak and spend time with. Just be careful, not to repeat the same thing again.
Being in the situation, you need to be little more conscious about certain things. You must start getting involved with yourself, by doing something that you always wanted to. But couldn't find time for the same. You must understand, how to save valuable time. It can be anything; going to watch a movie alone, painting something weird even if you are bad at drawing, singing over your terrace, cooking and spoiling something in the kitchen, roaming out at midnight or anything unusual that can help you kill the feeling of being lonely. 

Start taking the time as a blessing, not a curse of life. Since you do not have to deal with any other person or situation, you would not be answerable to anyone. So, you can live your life to the fullest without any kind of restrictions. It doesn't mean that you have to be lonely always, just that you need to be positive about the situation. Also, these efforts are not to encourage the Loneliness, but to get over it successfully. 

You can simply spend the time to work out, walk, meditate, exercise, outing, making friends, writing, reading, playing games, watching cartoons or getting active on social networking sites (not emotionally). It would be a smart choice to be active with your work and profession, rather than sitting idle at home with your situation. 

Trust me, these things would work practically. You can share someone else's loneliness, to get rid of yours. It works. Also try to deviate your mind and discussion, from your causes of complications.
Since you need to select the way, which is providing you with the freshness and encouragement for leading your life. How to control your emotions, will help you to be more independent. You must look for certain routes to escape your present situation, however, you need to select the most secure and reliable way to ditch your loneliness. You are the closest and trusted companion of yours, so start enjoying your life with your real self. Do not forget that you are precious and you have to achieve your success in life, so no one can ever hinder your dreams just by the physical presence or absence. Be aware of your potential and optimistic approach. Embrace the light of life with smiles!!

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