What is Domestic Violence?
Hi, Don't worry friends! I'm not going to teach you law today.
However I am going to make you aware about the realistic picture of life. That you must have seen, observed or unfortunately experienced; at one or another stage of life. In fact the situation is not a part of life, it is hell. The true picture of hell can be described, under the concept of domestic violence. The irony of our society is, that the creator of mankind has to bear every pain of humanity; in one or another aspect. Be it in the form of husband, brother, father, in laws or boyfriends; for that matter. Generally, we always attach violence with the beating or getting beaten by someone. However, is it restricted to only getting beaten or is there something else as well?
I don't know much about Indian law and its sections. However as per my knowledge of the same and the vast experience of the people, whom I have met till now. I got to know that it covers so many other things which are not even considered, at the time of cases that are being contested in the court of law in India.
Mental torture, financial issues, psychological tension and stress causing factor are also a vital part of the domestic violence. However, not much of you must be aware of the same. It is happening inside most of the closed doors, but for females these issues are normal. They are not even aware that they are the victims of the situation. Since everyone has the right to live, females tend to give up their own rights also. For them, they are being brought up with all the teachings of compromise and sacrifice.
But, nobody ever told them that - what is the limit for their compromise? Should they speak, when scolded for the first time? Or should wait to get beaten with the leather belt? Should they raise the voice, the first time when they are not allowed to talk to someone? Or should they wait until they get restricted to talk to everyone around? Should they come out of the house, when they were being sexually exploited? Or should they wait unless they are beaten blue and black, just for the physical abuse?
Is there any set criteria to keep your soul dead or any danger zone, to follow the slavery of your Masters? Masters, that are being chosen by the women. Since no one else has ever been so strong to rule her, except her own thinking. When she can work A to Z, manage lots of things, doing her best in professional and personal level. Do you think that she needs to be managed by someone, or ruled by any other person?
So, whenever she compromise or kill herself ; mentally, psychologically, habitually or physically. No one should think that she is born to be ruled. However, it is her natural attribute to make her stronger than the situation. Let's get to the center of discussion, what is the meaning of domestic violence?
When she breathes, but no more alive. In terms of thinking, understanding, eating, working and sleeping. Just that everything is fed in her psychological and physical system, by default. However, feeling died.
When she is keeping all her relationship alive, but at the cost of her own numbness. She reaches to the condition, where nothing matters to her at all. She used to cry while watching a movie with emotional stuff. However now, when her own life has become no more than empire of hell. She remains expression less, completely. Not because, she has committed a crime. In fact, yes! She has committed a blunder, by being a female in the ruthless society.
Whom should be blamed? Male dominant society, nature of females to compromise or other issues in society? In fact, thinking of each responsible person needs to be reanalyzed. If you can't bear any harassment for your own loved ones, how can you make it for someone else? Simple enough to understand, do what you want to be done with yourself...... Live and learn to let live.
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