Limitations Of Life

We often heard, about the limits of everything. But, actually what is the limit for anything? Also who decides for whom? Most of the time, it is being decided for the females. By the males attached to them. Or another female, who herself is restricted by someone else. But why do even these restrictions occur? Why can't each female live on her own terms? What stops her to wear what she wants? Who doesn't allow her to go wherever she wants to? How can she not eat her food with her liking?
Along with some more questions to follow. In fact, endless questions to follow. Since life of every woman has become more or less, the same. That neither Let her die on her wishes. Nor allow her to live a peaceful life, in this world. We talk about the advancement of the society and modernisation. However, are we really developing in every aspect? Or only few portions of the society are developing? What about the mentality of the people, who are driving the things for, so called development?
Whenever we talk about any woman, we start judging from various aspects. Who are we, to decide what she needs to do? Or should not do, for that matter. If she is going out of house in the late evening, she is not good. Time changes people , but the mindset of the people is difficult to change easily. However, her going out is her personal concern; why would anyone else have to worry about it? She should not wear such outfits. Has she approached you to ask, what are her wearables?
Why she is working in the specific field, while her husband is a doctor? Whatever she is doing, is her personal matter. No one has the right to interpret or interfere in her life. Did she ever asked anyone for help or support? Then, why do we have to be judgemental for her life and limitations. The best way to keep yourself away from such things, is to only bother about yourself. Also people must not set up the limitations for others. Live and let live.....

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