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Hi Friends! Hope you are feeling the agony and pain by now. Every coin has 2 sides, however sometimes the positive one is overlooked due to the darkness of the negative effects of the grey side. Everyone wants to come out of the mess and live the beautiful life. Some people who are living a normal life, cannot even imagine the hardships of the sufferers. Same goes with the people, for whom life is only a struggle every moment. We're discussing the suffering and destiny of one of those, for whom normal life is non existence. Neither she was the one who can forget bad, nor the positive things of her life. The same thing happened, in the concerned situation. She was getting the support and advice from few professionals, who couldn't appear in her case ever. But, kept on guiding her at the background. She is highly indebted, regarding the lawyers and other people who have been providing her the way out. Her situation didn't let her trust, on any particular community or profess...

Beware of MLM / Network marketing business.  Your profile is being watched by some MLM companies or network. You never know that, you may get a call from some very known person (family relations or friend) and you may be asked with a huge amount to invest in a business plan. Since you trust on that person, you end up investing money on his or her request.   It is true that every business requires some investment, but it should be viable and practical. Network marketing/ MLM is a business, which is not made for all. You may be asked to join a meeting in a renowned place like CCD or Starbucks, To play with your mentality. So that, you can think that the company is trustworthy and you will be impressed ; with hospitality and gratitude.  A person earns money after a lot of hard work and saves it for future plans. Due to some reliable resources, if this MLM Network comes to know about you, you end up becoming a part of their trap. When you have some money,...

Hello females, Please be aware !! A scammer team or group of scammer people is watching your profile online. If you are looking for a would-be/ better half/ husband for you online, please read this recent and real story before you decide to go online and find a partner for your life. You must be wondering/ searching your husband online as you are habitual of buying things on cart :) and you go on the matrimonial websites like shaadi.com , matrimonial.com , bharatmatrimony.com But do you really think that your information is safe ; when you register on these websites? ...  Will you be able to get the right person online, or you are only going to be a customer for these companies?   I am not in oppose of any online portal because everyone is following the technology for ease and feast, but nobody can secure the privacy to an extent to save females. I recently uploaded my sister's profile online (shadi.com) and I was seeking a  better half for her. Many peop...

Health Is Precious Every human being remains keen to keep his health, in the most appropriate shape and form. However, in the world of competition and advancement, people tend to ignore their health and fitness; unknowingly. That makes you feel more prone to diseases and occurrence of depression, caused by the hectic life schedule. It is always better to maintain your health as your assets, irrespective of your age and field of work. So that you can easily keep working, in your day-to-day life and maintain your personal life too. Always remember that money can be earned anytime you want to, but health cannot be regained if lost once. Therefore, you must never forget the truth of life and remain careful for your valuable body parts.  Strategic Planning While you are deciding on the right course of action to work out, you must look for certain criteria to be met with the scheduled exercises that you must adhere to. Since it is not a good idea to exercise in the way, that can s...

Human beings are prone to being emotional, however, it is not an ideal way to survive. Then, how to control your emotions to live a balanced and satisfactory life. Though there is no guide or Wikipedia for the same. But you need to select the most appropriate manner, to have a balance of your emotions and practical life. Often said and heard, don't be emotional. How many of you, have actually been able to implement that?  Not really, anyone can be so mature and strong to handle the emotional situations. Since everyone has limitations of life . It becomes almost impossible to manage and maintain, the level of low moments. That makes you feel more upset and frustrated, at times. It not only damages the present state of mind and body. But also, destroys or lessens the chances of developing in the future.  No one can advise you how to control your emotions, but it can only be managed by self-analysis. You need to hold on to your feelings and thoughts, in order to make s...

You are right! We're discussing the institution of marriage, prevalent in the country. Do you think, the following generation can survive in the world of compromise? Actually, it's not about the compromise. The whole relationship is based on the trust and respect for another person. However, with the change in thinking and attitude. Everything is going to diminish very soon. Most of the couples are living in the suffocating environment, yet the majority of the people never gather the strength to voice out their opinion.  What will be the result? What my family will think about it? What will be the reaction of the friends? Will my relatives stop contacting us? Would my image be spoiled, among my peers and boss? Can I do my work myself, after separation? How will I survive with my family, without my spouse? Can I cook for myself ( in case of male partner)? How would I manage my home, after she goes away? Would I be able to earn my livelihood (in case of female partner)? Ho...

Regret or Guilt would have never existed if humans can go back in the past. To make the changes or undo what was wrong. However, it is something that doesn't exist in reality and can only be a dream - you can never realize. Some of the mistakes can be rectified, but some steps cannot be changed. For which, there are some ways to get it fixed. But, ending your life should not be the option. There is still a new chapter in the life , waiting for everyone.  There are so many girls, who easily get trapped in the attraction of high society glamorous life. Or the life that movies and modelling actress live. However, it is not easy to achieve the desired place in the attractive industries. Even if you get some chance to reach, it requires something more valuable than your life. You have to compromise more than you will receive.  Let's go to an apartment in the metropolitan city. Well furnished rooms and luxurious amenities, that can take you to the journey of heaven. ...

Marriage is an association of two mindset, two thought processes, two different personalities and two families at least. But, the definition of the marriage has been changing with the passing of every moment. It has become more of a compromise, rather than the sharing of feelings and emotions. Where both of the persons are separate from each other, except few situations that cannot be ignored. For the masters of the society, marriage is a kind of license that enables them to rule the body and psychology of the spouse. No matter how much you are educated and modern, if you are into the sanctity of the institution. Then you have to bear the pain of getting sexually assaulted, every now and then. Irony of the situation is that neither you can raise your voice against the same. Nor there is any remedy for you to avail, in support from the law or society. Since there is no law in favour of the same, it is considered as a matter of right to own the body of his spouse . Vanishing Institutio...

Simple phrase, that is used by people without any reason- 'Just wait, don't hurry'. Just that most of the responsible people, who have the power of any smallest thing ; prefers to use it at the time of war. For them, time is not a big deal when it doesn't apply personally.   They are only concerned about getting their monthly payments and benefits, no matter what is their field of expertise. Not to focus on any particular designation or department, rather most of the places that have been providing public service in any way.  Let's have a look at some of the places that require urgent action and direction. However, due to the waiting approach it gets late or never. 'Just wait, don't hurry'. It may not effect the person who is responsible for the delay in the process. But it can change the life of the aggrieved person, in some cases majorly.  Attempt to suicide reaching to the government hospital, needs immediate treatment. Due to one or ano...

Nowadays, everyone is very occupied with different things in life. No one gets time for anyone, usually. Still, there is some empty space in life that doesn't get filled with the vast list of tasks done daily. How to kill Boredom, becomes a big deal for the majority of the people. TV and other means of recreation have taken the back seat, however, mobile and other Internet-equipped devices have changed the way of living. No matter how hard you are busy, at times you feel that you need something to do that can help you to break the monotony of life.  When you do not have time for anyone, how can you expect it from other people? Also, you cannot talk to anyone every time.  But you must have someone to talk to, every time. It goes like this: you can talk certain things to a few people. Since talking everything to everyone is not a good idea. Also, you cannot go ahead and talk to your close companions, always. Then, how to kill Boredom ; stands still.  First of all,...

The heart has wings! Neither it settles to something nor it lets you stay at a specific point or place. Then, how to f ocus while you are working on any particular project or venture. It is really difficult at times, to gather all your energy and efforts to make it work successfully. Since most of the time, your feelings and thoughts keep roaming away from you. Also, it gets difficult for you to collect those butterflies and concentrate on something in particular.  While everyone is busy with some of the other tasks, time is the biggest factor that keeps on moving irrespective of your wishes. No matter how hard you try to catch up, it goes beyond your control. Amidst the hectic routine, you must look for how to focus on the things that are going to affect your life. At times, you feel uncomfortable about the situation which keeps pushing you. That makes the journey of the techie very difficult to get to the destination.  As if your brain is pulling you to work and yo...

Social networking sites have become an inseparable part of human life, nowadays.   Everyone is obsessed with the wide reach of the network. Since it is helping people, to get in touch with each other. Also adding a lot of advantages to their business and personal life. But, how to use social media smartly is one of the factor - which is missing in most of the people. It needs to be taken care if we have to reach the betterment of humankind. Along with the development in every industry, While you are connecting with the Lost friends and people. You can easily get to learn, h ow to save valuable time by remaining in touch spontaneously. Rather than waiting for the special occasions;  like birthday, anniversaries and festivals once a year. However, every coin has two sides. Likewise, some of the people are not able to understand or deliberately misuse the leverage offered by the social media. All of us need to understand, how to use social media smartly before it's to...

Can anyone guide you, how to manage your relationship? Not really! How To manage your relationship? Can be a question for anyone, across the world. But actually, no one has ever received the concrete reply for the same or any Guru Mantra to make it a success. Everyone must have witnessed some or another concern while living in the relationship. However, at a particular moment, it doesn't give any solution. No matter, how hard you try, you come out losing everything. Forget about the expectations of the life. It is always better to manage things practically, while you are in the situation. But, if not handled properly everything goes out of the control. You must have seen or heard of many relationships broken, without any valid reason. Do you think it happens like that? No. Relationships are not only formed out of the affair, between the two people. It can be among the wedded couple, friends, siblings, parents and children, and others. That means between the two people, who are ...

How To get the FIR registered in India ? Is the question that arises, if you fall in any critical situation with someone or circumstances. Since it is one of the most important and basic documents, which you will need at every stage of the issue. Before going into the pros and cons of the subject, you must be aware of the concept. FIR is a First Information Report, which is the right of every individual. Also, you can get the FIR registered, on someone else's behalf.  Anyone who is facing the issues related to harassment, fight, torture, property, scam, fraud or other concerns that are related to physical or financial damage- should be aware of How To Get The FIR Registered in India . Vanishing Institution Of Marriage is giving rise to number of FIRs. The person can contact the police station and get the FIR registered, with the duty officer. Every area has a separate police station, however, sometimes the area is into controversy or none of the police stations takes the...

It never occurred to my mind, until one of my friends asked me about it. ' How can someone handle Loneliness? ' Since then,  several thoughts were moving across my mind. Where does it arrive from? Expectations! When you expect someone to be with you, accompany you for some time or whole life, you start expecting a lot of things, without saying or listening to. This situation may happen in any relationship "said or silent". It could be with your friends, siblings, spouse relationship or any other person who gets close to you soon but doesn't bear any name tags of the relationship.  You are not wrong in expecting the person to be a part of your life and enjoy the worthwhile importance. However, problems start when you forget yourself and become dependent on the special person in your life. Dependency can be mental, psychological or financial (in some cases) so, it can be easily managed if you remain independent in every aspect. Just to make sure that you do ...

Very common yet unavoidable issue! Most of the people are diving deep into the situation, which takes them towards the disastrous journey of frustration. I am no doctor or counselor. Neither I am going to advise you any therapy for the handling of frustration. Only a few things based on real-life situations, that makes you feel like opting to get out of the frustrating part of your life.  First of all, you must have an idea of what is frustration? When you want to do something, but it doesn't happen due to any of the reasons.  Or when anything doesn't work as per your way, you feel that you are helpless. You start underestimating yourself or your positive thoughts. All your achievements get lost in that particular episode of, not able to make it. This stage occurs to everyone in life, no matter what and when. Some people are looking for an escape, however, others become the victim of the situation.  Frustration can decay even the strongest of personalities, ho...

Let's proceed towards the journey of justice, which seems to be unattainable for a common man in the present state of society. Since the whole system is designed in such a complicated manner, that if anyone tries to raise the voice; she only has to suffer hardships without any kind of mercy from the closest relationships even. People look at the victim in such a way, that she starts feeling inferior and as if she has committed a heinous crime.  In the quest of justice, which was invisible for her; she forgot her own self. All the pains starting from her physical ailments and ending up with painkillers regularly. She didn't recall her choices and stuff, which she used to like. Just that, she has to be alive for fighting the battle. In the past, she was not able to walk 10 steps even. Not because she couldn't walk, but then her situations were very good and positive. However now, she was walking for long distances and travelling by bus; which she never liked to.  T...

Thanks, readers, for showing your interest in the life of Sandy and Paddy. Rather in the final stages of luck, that cannot be avoided by any means. The attraction of achieving the luxurious lifestyle has spoiled their lives, without any escape - they felt. In fact, most of the females are not able to live again after losing their respect and support from the family. Rather they don't approach their families, after going deep into the grey circumstances of life. Sandy was lured by one of her neighbours, who was providing beauty and fitness services to the models in casting couch with the silver screen. Sunny, who promised her to get the best soap opera of the leading TV channel. He took her to various places and presented the expensive articles, which she has never even touched in her life. She felt like she achieved the happiness of the world, through his company. She was ready to sacrifice everything, she said. But, was she aware what she needs to sacrifice? She found herself ...

Thanks for being a part of her journey to justice! In fact, this is not the story of a single female. Rather so many are dying waiting for justice, outside every courtroom. Where they are bound to forget their own identity, amidst the pressure and proceeding of law and the authorities. So many parents and a lot of children remain worried at home, for their daughters and moms. But, more than half of the married women are made to suffer without any fault of their own.  Every case file in the courtroom has its separate story, which takes ages to be concluded. Even when it's completed, it leaves so many questions unanswered - every dream broke - most of the future killed - maximum relationships burnt in the fire of circumstances. Like it happened in this case. She was just busy with the battle of getting justice, leaving her own self behind. Emotions, pains, happiness, peace, relationship and life; everything was far behind.  Even if she is awarded justice, what good it ...