Prema Continued..

Every woman should raise voice against domestic violence or the harassment that she is facing,  be it in love marriage or arrange marriage. Maybe by her husband,  in-laws or by the lover. But where and how to do it. .? Call police,  make a complaint about it in the police station or file the case in the court. But is it that easy to do,  how it sounds? Not at all. Police people will give a free advice on filing the case as they cannot do much about it. Because its the family matter in which they can't do anything. In rarest case, if they arrest the culprit,  then after the bail which hardly takes a day,  her life will become more difficult.

Then comes a huge list of people who gives free advice on the life and its compromise. How important is the husband for her? .?no matter her existence or identity remains or not. Be it a less educated girl or a well-established girl. In case she gathers the strength to stand and file a case in the court. It will take a lifetime for her to survive and win the cases. Dates after dates, sometimes the judge is not available, sometimes either of the advocates. Also, the dates take a few months after one. If it comes to some optimistic turn then comes the strike in the courts. So passing 2-3 years or sometimes more than that is not a big deal. But is every female safe and strong enough to live that phase of hardships and pressure? ..?

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