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Is it true love?

I have seen, read and observed different types of love. But, finding true love is little difficult. You can say, it hardly exists. Is there any calculations of recognizing that or does it bear something different than others? Maybe yes!! Parul is one of my friends, whom I know since our childhood. She is very easy to go and simple, but attractive lady. She had so many people in her life, who claimed to be her true love and some more who always wanted to be with her. Its not that she never got into love with anyone, but that craving for love always remain unsatisfied. Till the time, she reached the top stage of maturity. There was a guy in her history, who used to visit her every now and then. They usually met whenever he comes to the city. Satwik is the person dedicated to his job without having second thoughts. He is different from other people, as per my friend's version. He works with the detective agency and is married now. Like Parul is, but her's is a failure. Previousl...

Court of Law not Justice 3

You must be wondering what happened next. Actually, nothing happened as nobody except the victim is bothered with the so-called proceedings of the court. For them, it is just another name in the list of the cases fixed outside the court. Or you can also say that a thick file of the documents, that keeps moving from one table to another in the courtroom. But what about the time of life, that she is wasting in all of the processes and not getting anything done.  One fine day, the judge ordered in her favour that she is granted maintenance and will receive it for her son every month. You must be thinking that now the things have changed and she will get it straight. Not lucky enough, the order was applicable from the date of the announcement and not from the beginning of the case. So, the fees in arrears are still the same. In addition, to which, the husband has no plans to pay even the decided money.  Time is passing like normal for everyone else, but for her, it is stuck ...

Journey of the Techie Part 4

Hi friends, welcome back!!!  To keep moving without any specific direction, is little tough. Aaryan had an ocean of ideas and projects. He is the person who can find out another way, of every dead end. He initiated a very economical project of starting a business within ₹500/ $8, which helped a lot of people and their destinies changed. Today, when a normal dinner for two people in a nearby restaurant costs more than ₹ 500. He developed the concept of a full fledged business venture.  That includes marketing techniques, digital advertising and few other important factors that can help anyone to establish the empire. In fact, he has provided the calculation of every penny in a customize manner. Aaryan is one of the most ambitious people, who can lit a candle in the rain and enlighten the way for other people too. Bookish facts are very attractive and luring for saying and listening, but he is the only one I know till now who can support the idioms.  Aaryan was m...

Court of Law not Justice 2

What do you call the proceedings of the court, that keeps on going for the sake of it? No one is bothered about the urgency of the requirements, raised by the victim/applicant. Let alone the future of a kid, whose only crime was that he took birth from the womb of his mother. Law is there to help everyone in need of it. But, how many people have received help from the court? From the sight of the people, it is just a building of the court. No one can understand, how many victims are buried in their own suffering just waiting for the right decisions by the court authorities. Getting the right advice from the expert lawyer and the filing of the case is not an easy task to perform.  However, the main fight starts when you are standing in the courtroom. No sleep since last night, eating nothing properly in the morning. Wake up before the mobile alarm rang. Reaching the court even prior to the cleaning staff, before the assistant of the lawyer unlocks the chamber. But, does it count...

New Chapter in the life 2

Things take time, when you plan changes in life. Sometimes, it takes ages. Maybe a complete life, for some people. I was living various lives in a particular environment, that is not imaginable for anyone. I was fighting for my own survival on different fronts, my home, court, police station and various other sites. Taking myself to next level of progress in order to earn at least the requirements of routine life. Looking after my kid and his demands.  Simultaneously, fighting with my own self to make sure that I don't fail before winning. But, the duration of all the battles seems never ending. The more I was trying to get out of the situation sooner, the more I was getting stuck with other unthinkable things. I kept working like a machine, which has various parts. It has to do what is already saved for processing in the destiny. In addition to which, certain things are required to be taken care of every time.  It sounds like a good work for someone to write and earn....

Time changes people

I have not even thought of such an ugly phase of life, when a person who used to purchase anything to everything gets to the situation when she has to sell her household things for the survival of her kid and herself. No, I am not talking about any uneducated girl. Its just the matter of chance that she is facing the problem. I am telling you about the lady who lives in my neighborhood. I have seen her since she came after getting married. Piya is a beautiful and different character from us. She worked for some years and also manages her home. That she is doing at present too. Just that now her owner doesn't exist in her virtual life. Don't get confused, I am referring to her hubby who lived like he is the master of Piya. I have never seen her sitting or talking much in the nearby area, like we all do normally. She always remains busy with her family specially her son whom she takes care like a prince. I got to know from her mother in law and other people in the neighbor...

How to stay healthy with your busy life?

An old saying, 'Health is wealth' has actually lost its charm with the passing of time. Today, even if you want to stay healthy and you have that thought in mind, then also you are not able to work on it. Due to the busy schedule of each day and hectic life running out of time. So, it is also important for you to invest some time in your health and fitness.  First of all, you need to fix the specific time for the exercise and work out. In order to make sure that you are able to achieve the maximum results within very less time duration. Then comes the most tough part of adhering to the set routine, regularly. Since you cannot afford to miss anything, no matter what is going on in life. You need to be obsessed with your health schedule.  In the meantime, it is also important that you divide your work in accordance to the priorities and the level of urgency. As you alone, can't fulfill every task. It would be a good idea to assign the tasks to the people /family members /c...

Journey of the Techie Part 3

Hey Guys, good to see you again in the journey of Aaryan. He is not a hero or a superman, just that the qualities he possesses are incomparable. In fact, he did everything as we all do, but the only difference is the determination and sincerity which lacks after some time in most of us, generally. I am not trying to demoralize you but to motivate you that failure is not the opposite of the success, rather a part of the success.  He has started a consulting company, which he ran for a few years however his own trustworthy staff member changed the employer and joined Aaryan 's competitors. Even then, his attitude toward life was not troubled. He keeps on working, after every failure and complication, with more enthusiasm and experience thinking that he has covered some more distance in the direction of his success. Sometimes he feels that he is completely alone, still, he never backed off and keep on approaching his destination of success. It's not that he never felt low ...

New Chapter in the life 1

When I got broken and start distrusting the system completely, then an old friend of mine suggested me to start writing professionally. Though he always inspired me to write and insisted, I never pay any heed to it. This time he took all my details and subscribed me as a freelancer on one of the websites. I was wondering how to do it, actually what needs to be done was the right question. He guided me to every next step, also ignored some of my queries as he wanted me to search and find out how to make it work. It was not easy, however not difficult too.  I started writing professionally, for money of course. Day in and day out, the only task for me is to write and keep writing. My friend was very happy and proud of me, but I used to be in a different kind of life.  Deliberately, I ignored every negative aspect of my life and keep myself busy in research and writing work. Though I was not getting sufficient money to survive or as a reward of my hard work, however a little ...

Court of Law not Justice

On and off, we're heard saying or hearing 'Will see you in Court'.  That means the speaker has reached the stage where he has decided to file the case. But is the filing of the case, the end of the problems?  Or is it just the beginning of another set of complications?  Actually, the latter one applies in most of the cases. Approaching the court of law is as easy as buying a cup of coffee in a coffee shop. But getting the remedy to your case is like, lighting the sun.  I am not talking bookish here but the self-experience of my life and conditions. I am talking about the situation when the life only moves with the dates of the calendar, or you can say that the life gets stopped within the dates of the calendar. By the time, you reach the Verdict of the Court case, you realize that you have lost a lot even if you won the case. How?? Loss of time, energy, health and above all the loss of your mental peace which is difficult to retain. It's not that we don't unde...

Journey of the Techie Part 2

Hi Welcome back to the journey of Aaryan, who knows it could be a story of anyone from us. He is an owner of a handsome and talented personality, which was of no meaning to his efforts reached to the destination of success. He has been working like a robot for different purposes and people, even when he doesn't have the strategy to implement his goals and projects. He has worked for 18- 20 hours in a day, that too without any job in the office. However, his optimistic approach has taught him how to make the right moves when you are in the worst phase of your life.  Aaryan is the person who has the ability to fulfil his dreams but not the sufficient sources for realizing his aims. He worked with different companies and several other businesses, however, no one has identified the best of him. Through out his professional career, he didn't receive the 10% of what he was upto. The person never had any grudges for anyone, even when his own trainee has signed a contract for whi...

Journey of the Techie Part 1

Auditorium of the capacity bearing 2000 people was overcrowded. I am not talking about any dream or a scene of the movie. I myself have witnessed the speech and the event organized in honor of a very famous person, who has earned the name -  fame and capital within no time. I also felt that earlier, till the time I went through his past and the efforts behind this awesome success.  'Awesome ', is the word he likes so much. I am telling you the facts about the life of Aaryan, who is the master of the technological world. Five years ago, he was a guy from a middle-class family who has been fighting with the destiny all his life. However, he never gave up at any point in time and always helped with the best guidance to everyone. He has advised his friends, colleagues and even the people who became his contenders later to what to do in their carrier and how to do it?  Aaryan being the youngest amongst 4 siblings, who always worked hard without any expectations, have n...

Luxury cars are a passion

A car is a 2nd home for most of you. But can be the passion and attraction for some of the car lovers. Luxury cars have become the requirement and inseparable part of our lives, not the luxurious part of the trend anymore.  Few brand makers such as Cadillac, Chevrolet, Ford, Dodge, Chrysler, GMC, Tesla, General Motors has been taking the cars like- Bentley, BMW, Mercedes, Jaguar, land rover, Audi to the heights of the technology for last few years. From the price range of approximately $40,000 to  $150,000, a dream of owning a luxury car can be embraced. Every model of every brand is equipped with distinctive and unique features with the high-end specifications. Comfort, style, attraction makes sure that security remains the top priority of all the brand owners.  No matter the driver is a youngster who is not able to control the car sometimes or a diabetes patient who needs the medication when feeling uncomfortable while driving. Everyone is safe and secure due to t...

Relationship with dreams

Dreams are the biggest and adventurous destinations of your life. First, you create them. Then, you turn them in reality. Finally, you live them. I have heard that our dreams are related to our lives in one or the other ways. Either they remind us of the past memories or indicates about the future plans. Or simply mirrors the present time for our satisfaction.  I have also watched the series of soap opera which tells that dreams are the inseparable part of our life. Lots of myth and superstition is attached to the dreams. Something that we witness while our eyes are closed, means sleeping.  What I feel is that we can only witness something when we can view it or when we are in our conscious minds. So how can we witness something, when our body and mind are in the process of relaxation or not working almost.  Don't take it otherwise, I don't want to deny the existence of dreams. However, I am trying to highlight the different aspect of the nature of dreams. This is...

Entry of Payal

"Come on yaar, hurry up! " these are the words I always heard from my best friend Payal, who is a coordinator of the legal department in the same organisation where I am working in the administration.  I always wondered that why she remains in hurry,  whether it is our break or end of shift timings. Winter nights are terrible when you have to go home at 12 am and for which you need to wait for your cabs in the open parking lot. The waiting time could be 5 minutes to half hour or more sometimes depending upon the availability of the drivers who come early dropping the last shift associates. Payal used to drive her own swift sometimes but have stopped for the last few weeks. She has taken the car after she joined the company one and a half years ago. She is really a one-man army stuff, who never steps back from any problem. Last week, I received a call from her early morning. Being alone, I am never bothered about what timings of the day are and I keep sleeping as much ...

Time is streching ... Prema

Result day continuation- Those 5 days have passed and the day has also passed on which my child was supposed to rejoin the school in the next class. He has marked that day with the sketch pen on the calendar. But maybe his bad luck or mine that nothing has changed in our routine. Something keeps breaking inside me with every passing day but manhood is alive in his father's attitude. He successfully passed 10 more days to make my son sit back at home with one or the other excuse. I took him to school to talk to the authorities and he keeps extending the date of paying the dues without any botheration visible in his appearance or behaviour,  for that matter. For him, its just a way to increase my tension but amidst all this, the child is suffering and getting stubborn sitting at home. When his deadlines get finished with school and me, he played a new trick that he cannot afford such a high-end school and wants to change the school now. Neither he is aware of any option properl...

Prema Continued..

Every woman should raise voice against domestic violence or the harassment that she is facing,  be it in love marriage or arrange marriage. Maybe by her husband,  in-laws or by the lover. But where and how to do it. .? Call police,  make a complaint about it in the police station or file the case in the court. But is it that easy to do,  how it sounds? Not at all. Police people will give a free advice on filing the case as they cannot do much about it. Because its the family matter in which they can't do anything. In rarest case, if they arrest the culprit,  then after the bail which hardly takes a day,  her life will become more difficult. Then comes a huge list of people who gives free advice on the life and its compromise. How important is the husband for her? .?no matter her existence or identity remains or not. Be it a less educated girl or a well-established girl. In case she gathers the strength to stand and file a case in the court. It will ta...

Prema - Result of sacrifice

Looks are always deceptive!! Never judge the content with the packing of the parcel!! You must be thinking that these are known idioms.  What it has to do with our lives? Actually,  these and so many are mirror images of our own life from which we turn off our faces most of the time.  Even I never realise till the time I come face to face with a similar situation. The reality of everything,  every person and every situation is far away from how it looks. Okay,  let me share the story of Prema with you. Trust me, it's no normal character.  I have met her personally.  In fact, she is a very good friend of mine.  A normal looking smart,  intelligent and active lady in her early 30's. She is married for the last few years,  but when she wants she looks as if she has never got married. Yeah,  that's true.  She is very friendly and accommodating in nature.  She talks to everyone as if she knows that person for ages....

My life has become a paper.

At this stage of life,  when I have everything but nothing actually,  I feel as if I am not the victim but the culprit of my situations.  I have committed a crime of being into a relationship of marriage, that so many females do but how many are happy with it. I don't think even half of it.  Today when I want to breathe, to live,  to think about myself and my son's future,  seems as if the whole of the world is against me.  No matter where I go,  whom I talk or approach,  everyone thinks of his own benefit even before they bother to reply to me. Be it a police officer,  advocate sitting in a government office,  front desk person who is responsible for taking the complaints in women's cell or a neighbor who is aware of my existing situation which I have neither wanted nor invited still I am bearing bcoz I am a female.  That's the only and biggest crime of my life,  for which I am not responsible.  I haven't slept...

School days New year celebration.

Many of us wait for a new year to start something new .. or to finish something which has been pending for so long ... here I am sharing small stories of 90's. I remember my school days... once I was eagerly waiting for new year ..just a day before, on 31 December everyone was decorating his or her area .. few young people arranged a dance competition in my locality. I was very crazy to see the dance as I was a dance lover. I was not allowed to go and watch the dance as my parents were scared of my age.  Some how I managed to go to the dance competition and enjoyed the dance and after returning tried to dance in the similar way of few dancers who performed well and got prizes over there. Copting the same move gave some injury to me and it seemed so awesome those days which looks foolish now. New year morning is about to come .. I knew a few of my many classmates will distribute greeting cards ..as I heard the gossiping... I could not afford any greeting card as my family ...